First, do not plan your bachelor party for the week before your wedding. The week before your wedding is a very hectic and busy time, and a time when emotions are running high in anticipation. Should any problems arise as a result of the bachelor or bachelorette parties going beyond discussed expectations, it is better to allow a little time for reflection and not go into a wedding with any ill feelings.
Second, talk to your fiancé about your party. Perhaps you would like to establish some bachelor party guidelines, or perhaps you may both agree to a don’t ask don’t tell approach. Whatever you decide, discussing it ahead of time will benefit you both.
Third, remember that this is a time to party your friends in celebration of your upcoming wedding. This is actually not a time to 'sow wild oats' or go completely crazy. Remember, your fiance will be having a bachelorette party too. if during your party you are about to do something that would infuriate you if your fiancé was doing this at her bachelorette party - then you should probably refrain.
Fourth, careful with the camera. Chances are your best man will be taking pictures and chances are your fiancé will end up seeing these. If photos are being snapped, get the film at the end of the night and edit. Otherwise you may have to explain that picture for years to come.
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